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THE ULTIMATE TOP ТОР 20з THINGS TO LOOK FOR IN A CHRISTIAN MATE God's second coming probably won't be to tell us who we should marry. Pair each item on this list with some prayer and wise counsel and see what happens! three: home church one: two: spiritual growth faith light and darkness can't coexist. one of them will always take over the other. two hearts filled with light can overflow into the world and do great things. Make sure that the person you date makes a real effort to spend regular time studying the Bible and building a relationship with Christ. If you can find someone who is integrated in their church, you'll find that they probably will want to continue that practice with you. four: acts of service five: honorable tastes six: sexual purity not everyone was made to be a volunteer every day of the week, but someone who enjoys giving of their talents is a diamond in the rough. a person's favorite movies, music, and books can tell you a lot about how much they value things that come from God. the Bible is very clear about sex outside of marriage. someone who upholds that truth with the honor God asks for is trustworthy and honorable. nine: eight: healing from sexual trauma seven: healing from sexual sins open about sexual temptation addiction to pornography or having had multiple partners doesn't always stay in the past. dealing with those hurts before beginning a new relationship is essential pain from sexual trauma/abuse can change how people handle conflict, how they connect with one another, and it can even ruin healthy, marriage-supported sexual relationship. sin loves secrecy. being open about things that are troubling or tempting you can help slam the door on temptation of all kinds. ten: eleven: healing from past substance abuse twelve: sexually pure choices no current substance abuse Unhealthy patterns like substance abuse, if left unchecked, can resurface years later. Someone who strives for sexual purity in their media consumption before marriage will most likely continue doing so after marriage. too many people unthinkingly ruin their lives doing something they say will only happen once or is because we only live once. when the Holy Spirit leads us, life is just plain better. thirteen: fourteen: fifteen: no romantic baggage parental bonds warmer the better broken hearts can fester if left unhealed, and bitterness from a previous relationship might not bode well for future ones. Usually, the more an adult has a past filled with pain with their caregivers, the harder it may be for them to trust and connect with you too. Usually, the more loving and warm their home environment was, the more loving and warm they'll be in their adult romantic relationships. sixteen: communication seventeen: conflict resolution eighteen: humility The more open and communicative their family, the more likely they will be to stay open and honest with if the parents of your date can operate through disagreements without deliberately hurting one another, your date will probably be able to, too. look for someone who talks about their shortcomings and is comfortable discussing their weaknesses. you. twenty. similarities nineteen: good friends solid friendships built up over the years show commitment to the give-and-take required by real relationships. a strong friend community is just a hint of the quality of relationship a person is capable of. whether you share a love for modern art, action movies, or a really good joke, common denominators give you a solid foundation to stand upon. Phitpians 4-6-7 Don't worry aboui anything; instead, graý about everything. Tell 6od what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God's peace, which exceeds anyihing we can understand. Hs peace will guard your hearts' and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. If you liked this infographic, like, share, or google + it to share it with your friends! ChristianCrush .com Piktochart make information beautiful