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How To Talk To Women And Build Attraction

HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN AND BUILD ATTRACTION A 2014 INTERVIEW WITH THE WORLD'S BEST FEMALE DATING EXPERTS & PICKUP ARTISTS BY PICKUPMETRICS.COM Before you can build attraction in conversation you need to know what kills it. The Female Dating Experts say the 3 biggest attraction killers are: %24 2 3. Bragging and talking too much Too much Not holding sexual intent eye contact Biggest Attraction Killers #1 Not holding eye contact / poor attention span #2 Too much sexual intent #3 Bragging & Talking too much (tied in third place) #4 Risky topics, i.e. ex-girlfriends, sex & politics #5 Being too drunk #6 Bad hygiene 47% say the biggest turn off is when #7 Being over eager men's eyes wander #8 Not being present, i.e. not enjoying the moment So those are the killers, what about the builders? Here's how the Female Dating Experts suggest men BUILD attraction: Listen to her Hold eye contact Be present in the moment Compliment her Build a connection Ask questions But what do the Pickup Artists suggest? The top ways Pickup Artists suggest men BUILD attraction in conversation: 3 3. Hold solid eye Be fun & don't Make a contact focus on connection the outcome Female Dating Experts Vs Pickup Artists How to talk to women and build attraction Vs Female Dating Expert Pickup Artist Hold eye contact "Your goal is to make a connection through "Intense eye contact will also make you appear more dominant which will then make eye contact and uninterrupted attention. Anything else feels disingenuous." - Stephany Alexander her feel more feminine around you." Tripp LISTEN to her "The number 1 way a "Listen to what the man can build attraction is to LISTEN - to ask a woman questions and to be sincerely interested in her answers." girl says. This will give you all the material you need to keep the conversation going" - Johnny Berba - Ellen T White Be present and in the moment. Don't focus on the outcome "All he has to do is pay attention and complement the girl. Pretend she is the only one in the room. - Lisa Clampitt "Go into the approach just excited to get to know this woman and be present in the interaction." - Tripp "Be present and actually engaged in the exchange. Don't interrupt her sentences or worry so much about the next "Embrace your inner masculinity and becoming comfortable with saying what's truly on your mind Vs. what you think you should be saying" - Dylan Thrasher thing you are going to say, that you don't hear her. Speak, ask, listen and repeat." - Cija Black Don't talk too much "Talking too much is Usually due not to self-absorption, but to nervousness or a desire to impress. Remember, you want to connect with her, not 'impress' her." - Christie Hartman "Pauses and silences are actually good if you are comfortable with it and don't rush to fill them.Remember, if she likes you on some level, she won't make it difficult - she'll help you along." - Steve Jabba WORDS WORDS ONORDS WORDS WORDSWORDS WOROS WORDS Quit bragging By bragging, "rather than impressing her, (which is likely your intent), you'll come across as an egocentric narcissist who lacks the ability to be sensitive, communicative, Relax and don't try to impress her. It's going to feel artificial and lame. That means no stories where you try to show how cool you are, no bragging, no trying to talk yourself up. 'The lion doesn't need to roar." DJ Fuji %24 supportive and loving." - Julie Ferman Be FUN! "Don't bring up risky topics. These include exes, sex, politics, or anything else 'serious.' Such topics can scare people away easily if brought up too soon." Christie Hartman "Think, how can I have the most fun with this conversation? Fun is what | call 'the ultimate currency'. We always choose to be around the person we have the most fun with. So figure out how you can be THAT GUY" - Bobby Rio Make a connection "A 'ten' woman hears that she's beautiful all "Build some comfort with casual conversation then day long. Focus on her brain instead. A 'five' woman will respond better to compliments about her looks." push into likes and dislikes of local areas or places, figure out her passions and interests." - Pierce Rainy - Dr Wendy Walsh Remember Practice makes perfect. Get out there and start talking to women! References: FEMALE DATING EXPERTS: http://aprilbras- http://awakenther- http://christiehart- http://w- PICKUP ARTISTS: http://www.absoluteabili- http:/ http://ww- http://www.gkdat- pickupmetrics O By the metrics, science and lols of pickup design by

How To Talk To Women And Build Attraction

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