WHAT WOMEN WANT...IN MEN
What does a woman want in a man? Well, according to Charles Darwin and his Theory of Evolution, she instinctively plans for a future as a mother, favouring a man who will make a good provider ... older, established, of superior status. But Darwin was writing more than 150 years ago, at a time when women were still confined to corsets. Today, in the post-feminist age of online dating, what makes a woman happy?
Today the search is EASIER thanks to DATING SITES.
It's a no-brainer that women value trust and understanding in a relationship. Be honest with her, she can handle it. Tell her the truth, she'll be happy, even grateful for it.
"A woman's guess is much more accurate than a man's certainty."
"Plain Tales from the Hills" (1888)
SENSE OF HUMOUR
Make her laugh and drive her blues away! A cocky sense of humour and flattering one-liners can also work in your favour.
THE ABILITY TO PROTECT
Women can stand up for themselves very well, but deep down, all of them want to be protected. Do not hesitate if you have to take a stand for her. The safer a woman feels with you, the more she'll respect you.
Women are attracted to men who are smart and can hold an intelligent conversation. When it comes to making important decisions, women expect men to be in charge and to make the right moves. Try and understand her needs and appreciate her point of view.
Be loyalty to the woman you are dating. It's insulting for her, if the man she's with hits on other women.
Married couples who met online have an average courtship period of 18.5 months
There are 54 million singles in the United States. 8.8 million of those use dating services.
In October, online dating sites had 593 million visits in the United States according to Hitwise.
64% of online daters say common interests are the most important factor in finding a potential partner online.
MANNERS AND HYGIENE
While your rock star dreams, unruly hair and bohemian lifestyle might make school-girls drool, women prefer men who are well-groomed and...well, clean. Sloppy is not sexy.
"To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage".
Who says manners are for wimps? Truth is, it makes women feel special when guys go that extra mile. Even precious little gestures like holding doors, reaching for her hand to help her out of the car and offering to fix things around her apartment work like magic.
RESPECTING HER SPACE
Your attempts at invading her space will only scare her and make her run for cover. Give her time...and space. Let her be.
BEING A FRIEND FIRST
"Part-time lover and a full-time friend..." goes the popular song by Moldy Peaches. Express your affection through simple gestures and small gifts - an impromptu massage, a heartfelt note and hand-picked flowers may cost little, but they can make a woman fall in love with you all over again.
NOT BEING CLINGY AND DESPERATE
Do not look too needy or act desperate. Women have special sensory powers to sniff out men who try too hard. Be cool and confident, and trust me, she'll want you even more!