So the first date is going to be a bit hard because, the situation is always going to be two people clueless and trying to understand each other. It would be a bit of a challenge to keep the conversat...
ion alive and interesting and like in every other situation, preparation is going to do a lot of good. Think about what you really want and plan questions in a way that you would be able to find more about the person without invading the personal space too much at once. Remember it is not an interview, it is matchmaking and about finding the right one for your life, so be gentle.
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