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How to be the Perfect
Pick up Artist
Pickup artists achieve succes with women in ways other than relying on good looks or instinct. ft can take some work, but here are some tips to get you started.
Wait for an "Approach Invitation". a favorable
body language signal, like eye contact or a smile.
If you want to build tension. playfully ignore the
Al for a while before heading over.
Groups or alone
Don�۪t be afraid to approach a woman no matter if she�۪s in a group or alone. If you�۪re afraid to go over alone, bring a wingman
Interact with your friends or the bartender. Not
only will staying in an active talkative state help
you when you finally do approach, it makes it much
more likely that you even will.
Keep her curious
Evade her questions with humor or counter-questions
as long as possible. It�۪ll show her you�۪re
not trying to impress her, and it'll make her curious
who you really are.
Practice the approach
The next time you're out, just go up to a girl and
start a coiwemedon. She may turn you down. but
the only way to perfect your game is to do this with
as many women as possible.
Learn to read a woman's signals (called Indicators of Interest, termed IOI) like when she plays with her hair and laughs. This is an essential skill to acquire, because it'll let you know when you can take the next step.
An average frustrated chump or AFC is a term coined to describe males who are clueless and incompetent with women.
She's not for sale
Don�۪t try to woo women by buying drinks. This makes it obvious that you're interested in her, and you an think you can buy her time and affection.
Initiating a conversation is called "opening" and whatever the pickup artist says while opening is called an "opener."
Openers can be "canned" (prepared in advance), or improvised.
She isn't hot
Since you think the girt is hot, you are more
likely to show her that she Is indeed too
valuable for you. From here on out, no girl
is hot, she's either cute or "alright"
Hands out of pockets
If you are at a bar looking like you are bored, don�۪t
expect to get a positive response If you approach.
girl. If you seem like a buzzkill, she will be less likely
to taIk to you.
This occurs when the "target�۪ hasn�۪t given out an
"approach invitation" to the pickup artist.
Avoid doing this.
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